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How To Get A Guy To Ask You Out

January 24th, 2013 No comments

Learning the Proper Ways of How To Get A Guy To Ask You Out

By : Max Kolo

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how to get a guy to ask you out

You have this crush on this guy and you are wondering how to get a guy to ask you out. You two have been flirting non-stop since the first time you meet and yet he doesn’t even make a move to ask you out on a date – not even for coffee! But don’t worry, you can always ‘encourage’ him indirectly so he will have the bravery he needs to ask you out. There are some simple ways to show him that you are interested, without looking too much or too cheesy.

Be Sure !

First of all, you need to be sure that this guy is the one that you want to go out with. Sometimes you may be attracted to someone because of the first impression you have – whether you are smitten by his looks, by his seemingly bad body character, or by his outer appearance – but then you will be disappointed when you know his real skin. It is better to know him better; not just picking up guys at the bar from the first time you meet him. That’s why it is better to spot on guys that you are familiar with and you have known his characteristics well, if you really want to start a new serious relationship with him. Unless you are only interested in the one night stand thing, then the method of how to get a guy to ask you out won’t be applicable.

Show Him

Sometimes a guy is afraid to ask you out because he isn’t sure whether you are into him or not, so it is time to show him – without doing too much. There are simple ways to show him without making you cheesy or cheap:

  • Listen to him and everything he has to share and tell
  • Look deeply into his eyes every time you are making eye contact. Such sign is hard to miss
  • It is okay to flirt as long as it is not too much
  • Touch him lightly on the right occasions and situations. Pat him lightly on the shoulder or slightly touch his arm will send the message right away.

Be Yourself

It is always better to be yourself and don’t try to pretend to be someone else. A guy is always drawn to the real quality of a girl, so show him that you are worth it. It is okay to pay attention to your looks, but don’t be too much. Try to look your best without overdoing it. You are already beautiful in your natural way so keep it that way. If you are overdoing it, you may turn him off.

Leave It

Of course, if you have done all these methods and he still hasn’t asked you out, then leave it. He is definitely not into you. A guy is a natural aggressor; no matter how shy he is, he will pursue you if he is truly interested. But if he hasn’t asked you out after all the efforts you have tried, then these methods of how to get a guy to ask you out won’t be applicable for him.

Check out my other guide on : how to get a man to commit and how to attract a guy