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How To Get Over A Guy

November 19th, 2012 No comments

How To Get Over A Guy: Stages That You Have To Go Through

By : Max Kolo

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how to get over a guy

If you just have gone through a painful separation, you are probably wondering how to get over a guy. Separation and breaking up are always painful and hard, but if it is necessary, there is nothing to regret. Once you found out that he’s not the one for you or you two have different paths of choices, the separation must happen. Sure it is not easy, but it doesn’t mean that your life should stop just like that. Come on, your way is long way ahead. Your whole life is still long and awaiting for you. There are ways to overcome the loosing and the painful effect of separation.

The First Days

It would be just normal if you are sad during these days. Cry yourself out and let yourself mourn over losing him. It is okay if you want to be alone or cut your connections to the outside world. Be alone in your bedroom, cry yourself to bed, and shed tears over the break ups. But once you have cried yourself out, you can start thinking clearly. It is quite common that you will feel better and you can think clearly once you have let go of your pain through crying. Start planning what you want to do. it would be okay if at this point you want to talk to someone. Talk to people that you can trust; your sisters, brothers, best friends, moms, or anyone. Keep in mind that the first days are always tough and difficult, but it doesn’t mean the end of the world.

The Steps

If you want to get through a break up, there are several things that you can do:

  • If you are trying to get over him, don’t keep the stuffs that will remind you of him. Erase his numbers from your phone. Remove his email address from your contact. Keep all your photos, love letters, and all those stuffs concerning you and him within a box and keep it way under the closet. Once your mind is clear and some times have passed, you can decide what you want to do with the box. But until that time comes, keep everything within the box.
  • Spend more times with your friends. You can hang out with them, go on shopping sprees, visit the spa, and so many more. Spending quality time with friends will help a lot. Spending times with your loved ones will ease off the pain from the break up.
  • Improve your look. You have the so called qualified ‘me time’ now so be sure to make use of it. Go to beauty salon, have better appearance, paint or cut your hair…anything that you want to try or like.
  • After several months, you may have completely got over your ex , and you can try to get close to another guy you desire. Then , the next steps, make sure you read my post how to make a guy miss you and also what to get a guy for christmas !

It is granted that separation is always difficult – no matter how long you two have been together. But break up doesn’t mean that your life should end just like that. Life is more than about love, and you can still do more concerning yourself. Now that you know how to get over a guy, you don’t have to be afraid about going through that phase.

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